Through this program, I have learned that domestic violence has no bounds or limits: all people of all genders and ages can fall victim to abuse. I have learned that abuse can exist in the forms of not only physical and emotional abuse but also stalking, digital abuse and sexual coercion. I have learned that the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is often when the victim tries to leave. And, I’ve learned that the highest rate of intimate partner violence is with girls between the ages of 16 and 24, my age range. 

With teens often struggling to navigate social dynamics, expectations and pressures, they may have difficulty recognizing or addressing unhealthy relationships. In fact, 57% of college students struggle to identify dating abuse, and 58% don’t know how to support those experiencing dating abuse. 

I see this trend among my own friends and peers. Yet, through CHANA’s program, I’ve recently learned about the distinctions between healthy and unhealthy relationships and how to respond if unhealthy or abusive relationships occur: get a second phone, create a code word to use with trusted loved ones if in danger, memorize the numbers of safe places, devise a safety plan with a domestic violence professional. Now, I get to teach my friends and peers this information too. 

CHANA is leading the way as they educate teenagers in our community about healthy relationships and domestic violence and give them tools to prevent or address these situations if they occur. Through this education, I believe we can curb this trend of relationship violence and create a safer community for our next generations.