At a time in the year when it is cold, dark and snowy, we celebrate the birthday of the trees, Tu B’shevat. While this holiday does not get as much fanfare as other winter holidays Hanukkah or Purim there are lots of lessons to be learned.
Tu B’shevat celebrates fruits and grains that all come with their own uniqueness and individuality. This is the ultimate holiday of community as we take the different fruits and grains and bring them together for a beautiful Tu B’shevat celebration (recipes below).
The holiday begins with the pomegranate, a fruit that takes hard work to get to the seeds. Pomegranates have a very hard outer shell and you have to be skilled and thoughtful to get into the shell to get the seeds out. They teach us that not everyone wears their heart on their sleeve and it’s often needed to have thoughtful conversations and the patience to listen to get to know someone.
Next on the Tu B’shevat table are dates and olives. Dates and olives are edible on the outside but have seeds on the inside. Often when someone eats a date or an olive they just throw the pit away without even thinking about it. It’s easy to throw that part away because it’s inedible, but pits are actually seeds and can be planted to create something new. Olives and dates represent that everyone has something to teach us and everyone is a creator and innovator in their own way.
Grapes and figs are the next fruits on our Tu B’shevat table. These fruits can be eaten whole and without any effort. They remind us of the wholeness of people and bringing our whole self to conversations, interactions and experiences. These fruits remind us of how to be vulnerable and share ourselves with others.
Lastly to celebrate Tu B’shevat, we use wheat and barley as part of the celebration. Both grow tall and are seen as representing kindness. These grains teach us that all relationships begin with empathy. Empathy is not just understanding someone’s feelings, but really imagining how that person might feel at a given moment. When we can show empathy and kindness to others we can strengthen relationships and community.
The lessons of Tu B’shevat are many, but as we celebrate this year let’s connect and learn from each other, remember our own uniqueness and create a community just as beautiful as the fruits of our Tu B’shevat table.
Try some of these delicious recipes using fruits from the Tu B’shevat table. They were provided to us from our community.
By CJE Connector Leia Neft
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Stir all ingredients together in large bowl.
Courtesy of Pearlstone Kitchen
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Simmer slowly until tender and reduced to desired consistency.
Courtesy of Pearlstone Kitchen
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To serve
Powdered sugar
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