I’m the kind of Jew that can very easily mix up the Hebrew “chevre” meaning close-knit group of friends or colleagues – “group,” “society,” “company” with… goat cheese.
Yet, as I transition back from my experience as a first year at the National Young Leadership Cabinet (Cabinet), I continue to come back to this word.
Chevre emphasizes a shared bond, and I think it’s safe to say that the 300+ leaders who attended Cabinet this year are feeling this bond in their own ways. Me included.
2026 marks 10 years without my father, Thomas Werner Hilb. My dad was the kind of man who enjoyed a “greasy spoon” as much as a “Five Star Steakhouse” and had his own rating system written on the back of restaurant business cards that he kept in plastic-sleeved binders, organized by city. He believed charitable giving should always be anonymous and that heaven was being able to see the ocean but avoid the sand from a balcony in Boca, surrounded by camp friends you met at Camp Golden Eagle as a child.
Before leaving for retreat, I was asked to bring an item that represented my Jewish leadership journey. I settled on a mezuzah that my father’s first cousin and his wife recently sent me. I talked about my journey from what my family lovingly called “Boca Jews” to becoming a “Mezuzah Jew” (In case you are wondering, you can be both simultaneously). The point here being that when I was growing up, we were the kind of Jews who wintered in Boca, but never and I mean never, put our Judaism on display.
As I listened to the incredible stories this week of this organization that I, admittedly, know less about than most of you, I had this strange déjà vu. I was taken back to a time when my father and all his friends rented out the DC Holocaust Museum to raise funds.
It is one of my first memories, not only of being in a big, generous Jewish community and one of the only ones where my dad mentioned his parents’ and grandparents’ stories of escape, but also where I remember realizing we were resourced and therefore could and were obligated to do something because of it.
“L’dor vador” is my favorite Hebrew phrase. From generation to generation.
There is so much I look forward to and so much still to learn as I journey through Cabinet over the next five years. In the meantime, I’m glad to:
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