Start Early and Lead by Example

You have the power to shape how your children and grandchildren understand giving. Begin conversations about tzedakah while they are young and consider creating a family tzedakah box where everyone contributes. When the box is full, involve your children in choosing the recipient. By making giving a shared experience, you teach that generosity is a family value, not just an individual choice.

Model Your Values

Your actions speak louder than words. Invite your family to join you in volunteering, donating or attending nonprofit events. When they see you living your values, they learn that tikkunolam is about action, not just intention. Your example can inspire a lifelong commitment to helping others.

Share Your Story and Legacy

Tell your family about your own journey of giving. Share stories of those who inspired you, the causes that matter most to you and the lessons you’ve learned through your own philanthropy. Research by Marshall Duke shows that children who know their family history are more resilient and better able to face life’s challenges. Sharing your history and values allows your children and grandchildren to understand the legacy you are creating and the impact they can have too.

Spark Meaningful Conversations

The holidays provide a perfect time to engage your family in discussions about giving. Ask questions that encourage reflection and ensure everyone is heard:

These conversations help your family understand your choices, explore their own passions, and feel a part of something larger than themselves.

Create Traditions That Matter

Use the holidays to establish giving traditions that are personal and impactful. Consider volunteering together, making a collective donation instead of exchanging gifts one night or selecting a charity that resonates with your family’s values. Connecting your actions to the season’s teachings, like the light overcoming darkness during Chanukah, reinforces the meaningful ways you bring light into the world.

This holiday season, your generosity can leave a lasting imprint. By sharing your values, involving your family and modeling acts of kindness, you create a legacy that will inspire those you love and strengthen the bonds of your family.

If you would like guidance on creating family giving traditions or identifying meaningful opportunities, contact Lauren Klein, Vice President of Funds and Foundations, at 410-369-9278 or lklein@associated.org.